Category: My Story

I wanted to share a bit about my own experiences. I started buying lingerie…I’m not really sure when or why anymore. I can say, that like most femme humans I originally bought them for my partner, because, well, they’d be the ones actually seeing them. And then not too far down the line, I bought… Continue reading My Story: Self Image and Weight

I’ve always cooked. As long as I remember, I was a part of the kitchen. Whether that was (sometimes unwillingly) being recruited to chop potatoes or peel carrots, or to stir the sauce while Mom did something else – or the best, to ‘clean up’ the bowl of brownie or cookie batter. I was very… Continue reading Cooking

I have lost weight before, and where I’m trying to get to in terms of weight is where I was previously, for about 3 years. After that, office life set in and I wasn’t working on my feet for the majority of the day. Plus a number of other dietary factors. The way I lost… Continue reading Flexible Dieting

Weightlifting is one of those things I didn’t really know that much about. I’d say I was really introduced to it about 5 years ago when I flirted with Crossfit (yes, I was one of those assholes for a little bit). I faffed around with ‘lifting’ – poorly using the machines in the uni gym… Continue reading Weightlifting

I wear lingerie for myself. Nobody else, though others may benefit, at least for a few minutes. I wear lingerie for myself because it emphasizes my strength. My femininity and my courage. I wear lingerie because it helps me feel and project the self-confidence that took me years to actualize. I am not skinny. I… Continue reading An Introduction